Intimate Strangers
some things are socially acceptable, and then again…..
Promiscuous casual sex is morally reprehensible, socially unacceptable, and fucking very dangerous. Or rather, that is what I believe to be the truth of it. One reason for this post is a news story concerning a married woman who picked up / was picked up by a stranger in a bar, went back to his place, where she was stabbed twenty times by the drug addict thug, who then tried to cut off her head. The body was naked. They’d had sex.
This was by no means an isolated incident of casual sex turning into something very worse.
Picking up a stranger in a bar may be exciting, sexy, erotic, physically satisfying, with a frisson of danger thrown in, but it can also be fucking damaging to your self-respect, health, wealth, sanity, existing relationships, future relationships, social standing….. You could end up being humiliated, mugged, beaten, raped, passed around, stalked, gaslighted, ghosted, or dead.
Some of the same goes for people you ‘meet’ on social media, dating / sex dating sites, or any of the other myriad ways we can connect via the internet. Basically you have no idea who these people are, where they’re from, what they’re really like, their history, criminal record, and what the hell they really want from you. Are they the sex / age / ethnicity they say they are? If there’s a picture is it of them, and how long ago? If it’s an intimate picture they are probably not someone any decent person would want to know anyway.
There are labels for women who have casual sex with strangers and post intimate pictures of themselves on the internet ~ all of those labels are extremely derogatory.
Personally, I have three things in my favour when it comes to social media / email / long-distance friends and relationships. #1 I know my way around blogging. #2 I am a man. #3 I am very smart / computer savvy / I was trained to spot liars a mile off. Not everyone has my advantages, and yet women do engage in intimate relationships with people they only know from what they see on their own computer screens.
Personally, I have never knowingly ‘hit on’ a woman I didn’t know from Eve, picked up a woman in a bar, had first date sex, had multiple partners, been on a sex dating site, had sex with an ex, had sex with anyone much older / younger than me….. Maybe I am staid and naive, maybe I’m shy, or maybe I have standards, ethics, and morals.
Some say that fucking a stranger is incredibly hot. And that having multiple sexual partners is where it’s at. All I know is fucking a stranger has nothing to do with love and a lot to do with instant gratification, or money.
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jack collier
jackcollier7@talktalk.net
If you’ve been there with a stranger I don’t want to know
Money
a wise person has money in their head, not in their heart
I worked in banking and international finance for 30 years, and the most sagacious piece of advice I ever had was given to me by Mr. Williams, the then manager of Midland Bank in Durham City. He said, ‘Don’t ever be the richest body in the cemetery’. Contrary to his own advice he probably was ~ but then he had a widow and 3 daughters to think of. I don’t.
Like everything else, money follows the basic law of nature; if you have some it’s easy to get more. If you have nothing, then you are fucked. Bankers will lend money to richer people, and turn away the broken and downtrodden every time.
It’s always within your reach to be rich, but money often costs too much, especially for women. Strike that, money can cost too much for everyone, including wealthy guys. Because I was successful I found myself a trophy wife, and she cost me half a small fortune. But that doesn’t ever matter, any smart person can make money ~ nobody can make a good relationship.
That gives us rule #1 about money. If you are even moderately attractive then find yourself a moderately wealthy, moderately generous, moderately attractive partner. Some richer guys will make you feel real cool for a while, and then dump you like garbage. I know, I’ve done that ~ to my eternal shame.
Given we are not all rich, how can we manage the money we haven’t got?
There are some basic rules about money;
- Don’t buy on impulse.
- Don’t max out your credit cards.
- Do not borrow from family or friends.
- Never do anything you hate just for money.
I was very guilty of the last one. Working for a living is doing something you hate just for money.
Some say that money makes the world go around. And that the fat cats get all the cream. All I know is that it might be tough at the top, but it’s rotten at the bottom.
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jack collier
jackcollier7@talktalk.net
money will buy you any woman you want
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