Resentments Ruin Relationships
Chaos: an infinite abyss of utter confusion and disorder.

Resentment: deep, bitter, painful and persistent anger and hurt at someone or something as a result of a being ill-used and treated unfairly.
Resentment is like drinking deadly poison and waiting for the other person to die. ~ Carrie Fisher
My life is mired in chaos. Due to the unaccustomed lack of alcohol in my bloodstream my brain is beginning to function at something like full capacity. This is not universally good news. I realise that I have a few deep and abiding ill feelings of dissatisfaction and rancour ~ resentments if you like. I need to purge these from my soul, or my soul must surely die.
A life lived mired in resentment is one that is lived primarily in the past, and this is never one that is filled with joy. ~ Taite Adams.
I cannot change the past, it is futile for me to dwell upon slights which happened as recently as yesterday. Somehow, sometime, I should think about forgiveness.
The feeling of resentment and inferiority is natural and nothing much can be done about it. What can be done is to think, where these feelings will lead you? If you want to be a winner in life, if you want to reach the top, then make sure that these feelings of resentment and inferiority lead you to nothing else but aspiration! ~ Abhishek Ratna
Resentments are addictive, I am busy breaking one addiction, and I swear that I will also break my capitulation to old dramas and new hurts, or else my life will slowly unravel like an unwanted ball of twine.
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jackcollier7@talktalk.net
Quantum Mechanics and Life
Poetry has rules, the sea has rules, even chaos has rules. Quantum mechanics breaks all the rules that make sense in real life. Yet, if you look really carefully, some of the principles described to explain the sub-atomic world are perfectly logical in daily life.
Heisenberg’s uncertainty principle says that it’s possible to know some things, but the more you know about one thing the less you know about another. I know some people who are world experts in their field, but I wouldn’t trust them with a can opener ~ they have concentrated on knowing everything there is to know about one thing, to the exclusion of knowing anything at all about everything else. That is a perfect example of being a hopeless human being. A real Renaissance Man knows a lot about everything, and at one in the same time can do most things ~ from making a wooden chair to designing a boat, and then building it.
Quantum logic also states that the very act of observing something changes the thing / person you are observing. We all know this is absolutely true. As a gross example most people will not scratch their groin if they think there is anyone watching them. A more subtle example is to be found in your significant other. He / she behaves differently when you are around to the way she / he behaves when she is alone or with a circle of friends that does not include you. Normally your significant other is much better behaved when you are observing them than when they are free of your scrutiny. Most sane people will not have sex with another person / several people when you are watching them.
In fact, if you are watching something / someone, both of you stop being independent entities and become one system. For example, professional sports cannot exist without a crowd, and the crowd becomes part of the game.
And, then there is the damn cat. Schrödinger’s cat lives in a box and is both dead and alive at one in the same time. The assumption is that the cat is neither dead or alive until you open the box and take a look. As far as I am concerned the only lesson you can take into real life from this bit of quantum logic is that it’s pointless to worry about anything until it happens. Don’t dig a grave until you have an actual dead cat.
Schrödinger’s cat leads into the probabilistic nature of the universe. This says two things;
- Nothing is certain. There is only a choice of probable / possible outcomes which range from the very likely to the almost totally impossible. But, any of those outcomes is possible.
- Even the most unlikely thing can and will happen.
Someone will win big on the lottery the first time they buy a ticket. The Americans will honestly believe they know how to make a cup of tea. President Obama will not make a fool of himself in Africa.
The multiple universes claimed to exist by quantum theory mean that anything imaginable is possible. For example; Isis and Aphrodite exist today, King Arthur is alive and well and still has Excalibur, and I may finally come to terms with the true nature of spirituality. No, that last will never happen.
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jackcollier7@talktalk.net
English Gentleman, moine guerrier


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